Ecstatic Living Institute

Ecstatic Living Institute was founded in 1999 by Steve & Lokita Carter who introduced over 15,000 people to the art of ecstatic living and ecstatic loving. Based just north of the Napa Valley in the San Francisco Bay Area, we offer high quality, transformational SkyDancing Tantra seminars, coaching and vacation retreats led by carefully selected professional Tantra instructors, across North America and in Costa Rica.

Timeless Loving: Intro to Tantra

Our signature Timeless Loving workshop is designed for couples and singles who are ready to take a step towards more aliveness, consciousness and love in their intimate relating and in their daily lives.

Love & Ecstasy Training

Change forever your experience of sexual loving and spirituality, and deeply explore how your sexual energy can heal your body, open your heart and expand your very being to states of unity and bliss.

Learn to be a tantric lover and bring more joy and ecstasy into your life - in the bedroom and the boardroom... starting right now!
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We’re excited to announce our partnership with Ecstatic: An Experiment in Radical Connection, an immersive 4-day experience this June 9-12, 2016, in Pinecrest, CA!

SPECIAL offer for our Ecstatic Living Community members! Get $25 off the ticket price by using the code “ECSTATICLIVING” in the promo code section, or by clicking this link.


What others say about our Workshops

Often when we make love, the excitement propels us to move forward too quickly, and it it ends too soon. You showed us the concept of building slowly but steadily towards an astounding level of joy and sharing, not only of our sexual excitement, but the deep physical and spiritual elements that make the entire experience of making love a more rewarding and exciting experience. Thank you for a great workshop!

Orpha & Don Elms, OK

“I enjoyed the attention and interaction between my wife and I, and found a closeness we seldom experience after 33 years of marriage. It was especially satisfying to subsequently learn my wife experienced much the same feelings. And even more exciting, the sharing has continued, now that we are home. Thank you for the gentle fanning which kindled the lingering glow of our marriage into a warm loving flame.”

Kenneth & Mary Fischer, FL

Thank you for showing us that making love can be a meditation!

Luke, Entrepreneur

Fantastic, unique, sensitive, effective, , loving, professional, flexible, exciting, intense, instructive.

Hans & Dani, Engineers