A quick look… One of my steppi
ng stones on the path of SkyDancing Tantra has been a phrase coined by Margot Anand, “I am responsible for my own pleasure”. From my parents I learned that it was not okay to ask for what I want – sexually or otherwise. In their view, a female who did ask was a “slut”. Hence I grew up with the assumption that whatever my lover had to give, that’s as good as it was going to get.
When I started on the SkyDancing path, I learned that I did not have to limit myself to that conditioning. Through diligent practice and many healing sessions I overcame this early shaming and moved into a responsible relationship with my sexuality, thus creating more fulfilling experiences for myself and my partner in the bedroom, and overall.