SkyDancing® Tantra Coaching
Aqua Tantra™:
Tropical Vacation
Dec 25, 2020 to Jan 1, 2021
with
Bodhi Sambhava & Fernando Manrique
Pura Vida Retreat
in
Yelapa, Mexico
Tropical Tantra® Coaching:
in Costa Rica with Lokita Carter
Feb 13-20, 2021
with
Lokita Carter
Lokita's Sanctuary
in
Playa Montezuma, Costa Rica
SkyDancing® Tantra Coach & Teacher Training
Module 1: The Foundations of SkyDancing® Tantra
(date TBA next year)
with
Laurence Heitzmann & Laurent Lacoste
EarthRise at IONS
in
Petaluma, CA
SkyDancing® Tantra Coach & Teacher Training
Module 2: Awakening Energy & The Dance of Group Dynamics
(date TBA next year)
with
Cassidy Geppert & Mika Smith
EarthRise at IONS
in
Petaluma, CA
SkyDancing® Tantra Coach & Teacher Training
Module 3: Diving into SkyDancing® Tantra with Margot Anand
(date TBA next year)
with
Margot Anand with Jim Benson
EarthRise at IONS
in
Petaluma, CA

Would you like to learn tools to be more intimate with your partner? Do you feel that a workshop setting where there are many other people is not right for you? Would you like to reignite the spark between you and your partner, fan your flame of passion, and improve your relationship and daily life while you have a relaxing time away from it all, experiencing and practicing Tantra?

Whether you want to address specific issues in your relationship, learn tantric love and skills for creating more pleasure in your love life, or simply find out what Tantra is about, private SkyDancing Tantra coaching might be what you are looking for. Tantra coaching through Ecstatic Living® Institute can help you:

We begin our time together by co-designing with you a program specifically aimed at your desires and needs. In-person Tantra sessions take place during the day. Once your in-person sessions are complete, you can go back to your accommodation to integrate and play with the new insights and ideas you have gained. Alternatively, online coaching can be scheduled for daytime or evening sessions and take place from the comfort of your own home.

Programs can be longer or shorter in duration — whatever suits your needs best. This is your time, and your coach is there to assist you to make the most of your experience!

Our SkyDancing Tantra Coaches

Lokita Carter co-founded the Ecstatic Living Institute in 1999 and is a direct lineage holder of SkyDancing Tantra. Together with her late husband Steve, she taught hundreds of Tantra seminars across the US and Central America. Life-threatening cancer and the tragic loss of Steve in 2015 have deepened Lokita’s teachings to new levels of intimate understanding of life, death, and what’s really important: love. Re-emerging victoriously from the darkest time of her life, Lokita is profoundly inspired to share her insights and passion for Tantra, helping others learn how to taste the bliss that is possible when we are fully present in the now and in love with ourselves, each other, and life at large. Today, Lokita offers specialized Tropical Tantra® Coaching programs for couples in Costa Rica, as well as Tantra Coaching Online for Couples.

Bookings: To inquire about Lokita's online coaching and current availability, click here

Based in the San Francisco Bay Area, Kai Wu is a certified SkyDancing Tantra Teacher and Sexological Body Worker. A love, sex, and relationship coach and somatic sex educator, Kai's mission is to support people of all cultures and backgrounds to be happy in their bodies, relationships, and sexuality. "This work is my great love and my form of activism," she says. Kai's passion lies in helping people experience the satisfying sex and relationships they have always wanted and, in doing so, transform not only their own lives, but our communities and the world at large. Kai is a senior faculty member of the Ecstatic Living Institute.

Bookings: To inquire about Kai's online coaching and current availability, click here

Based in the San Francisco Bay Area, Xanet Pailet is a certified Tantra Educator, Sexological Body Worker, and Somatica trained sex coach who has worked in the therapeutic field for more than 25 years. While running a successful sex and intimacy coaching practice for individuals and couples, Xanet also teaches several Ecstatic Living seminars. Xanet's teaching approach is holistic, interactive, and experiential, and it is based on her extensive studies under Steve and Lokita Carter, her completion of the SkyDancing Tantra Coach & Teacher Training, as well as her broad experience in sex and intimacy coaching for individuals and couples.

Bookings: To inquire about Xanet's online coaching and current availability, click here

A Note About Hands-On Work

In our private SkyDancing Tantra coaching sessions, your coach will reveal to you ways to enhance intimacy with your partner. In this professional role, your coach will not be available to engage in any form of physical or sexual activity and/or instruction with you.

Other Types of Tantra Coaching

Some of our Ecstatic Living teachers offer private coaching through their own independent coaching practice which is not affiliated with SkyDancing Tantra.


"We deeply appreciate your teaching and sharing of your knowledge with a sense that it will become a part of our lives as we share our own joy and love in this world." —Lynne & Mordechai
"Thank you for the fantastic tantric massage personal coaching. We had a special time and will remember it fondly. You are patient and giving trainers, and your flexibility really allowed Becky and I to achieve exactly what we wanted to achieve." —Randy & Becky