SkyDancing Tantra Coaching
Aqua Tantra®:
Expansion in the Elements
Jan 23-27, 2019
Bodhi Sambhava & Fernando Manrique
Pura Vida Retreat
Yelapa, Mexico
Ecstatic Weekend™:
Tantra, Nature, Adventure!
February 8-10, 2019
Nisi & Thor Hann
Private Location
the High Sierras near Lake Tahoe
Timeless Loving® (Level 1):
An Introduction to SkyDancing® Tantra
Feb 8-10, 2019
Sara & Thomas Stout
Guest House Retreat
Chester, CT
Tropical Tantra™ Vacation:
A Special Valentine's Week for Couples
Feb 9-16, 2019
Lokita Carter and Team
Lokita's Sanctuary
Playa Montezuma, Costa Rica
Timeless Loving® (Level 1):
An Introduction to SkyDancing® Tantra
Feb 15-17, 2019
Steve Still & Michelle Love
EarthRise at IONS
Petaluma, CA

SkyDancing Tantra Coaching

Would you like to learn tools to be more intimate with your partner? Do you feel that a workshop setting where there’s many other people is not right for you? Would you like to re-ignite the spark between you, fan your flame of passion, and improve your relationship and daily life while you have a relaxing time away from it all, experiencing and practicing Tantra?

Whether you want to address specific issues in your relationship, learn skills for creating more pleasure in your love life, or simply find out what Tantra is about, private SkyDancing Tantra coaching might be what you are looking for.

We begin our time together by co-designing with you a program specifically aimed at your desires and needs. Tantra sessions take place during the day. Once your sessions are complete, you can go back to your accommodation and integrate and play with the new insights and ideas you have gained.

Programs can be longer or shorter, or over more days—whatever suits you. This is your time, and your coach is there to assist you to make the most of your experience and to enjoy each other!

Our SkyDancing Tantra Coaches

Lokita Carter cofounded the Ecstatic Living Institute in 1999 and is a direct lineage holder of SkyDancing Tantra. Together with her late husband Steve, she taught hundreds of Tantra seminars across the US and Central America. Life-threatening cancer and the tragic loss of Steve in 2015 have deepened Lokita’s teachings to new levels of intimate understanding of life, death and what’s really important: love. Re-emerging victoriously from the darkest time of her life, Lokita is profoundly inspired to share her insights and passion for Tantra, and to let others taste the bliss that is possible when we are fully present to now, and in love with ourselves, each other and life at large. Today, Lokita offers specialized Tropical Tantra™ Coaching programs for couples in Costa Rica.

Bookings: For more info about Lokita's Tropical Tantra Coaching, and for bookings, click here.

Based in the San Francisco Bay Area, Kai Wu is a certified SkyDancing Tantra Teacher and Sexological Body Worker. A love, sex and relationship coach and somatic sex educator, Kai's mission is to support people of all cultures and backgrounds to be happy in their bodies, relationships and sexuality. "This work is my great love and my form of activism", she says. Kai's passion lies in helping people experience the satisfying sex and relationships they have always wanted and, in doing so, transform not only their own lives but our communities and the world at large. Kai is a senior faculty member of the Ecstatic Living Institute.

Bookings: For more info about Kai's private coaching practice, and for bookings, click here

Based in the San Francisco Bay Area, Xanet Pailet is a certified Tantra Educator, Sexological Body Worker and Somatica trained sex coach who has worked in the therapeutic field for over 25 years. While running a successful sex & intimacy coaching practice for individuals and couples, Xanet also teaches several Ecstatic Living seminars. Xanet's teaching approach is holistic, interactive and experiential, and based on her extensive studies under Steve & Lokita Carter, her completion of the SkyDancing Tantra Coach & Teacher Training, as well as her broad experience in sex & intimacy coaching for individuals and couples.

Bookings: For more info about Kai's private coaching practice, and for bookings, click here

A note about hands-on work

In our private SkyDancing Tantra coaching sessions, your coach will reveal to you ways to enhance intimacy with your partner. In this professional role, your coach will not be available to engage in any form of physical or sexual activity and/or instruction with you.

Other types of coaching

Some of our Ecstatic Living teachers offer private coaching through their own independent coaching practice which is not affiliated with SkyDancing Tantra. If you choose to book an Ecstatic Living teacher through their independent practice, please contact them directly.


"We deeply appreciate your teaching and sharing of your knowledge with a sense that it will become a part of our lives as we share our own joy and love in this world." —Lynne & Mordechai
"Thank you for the fantastic tantric massage personal coaching. We had a special time and will remember it fondly. You are patient and giving trainers, and your flexibility really allowed Becky and I to achieve exactly what we wanted to achieve." —Randy & Becky