Kai Wu
Certified SkyDancing Tantra Teacher

Based in the San Francisco Bay Area, Kai Wu is a certified SkyDancing Tantra Teacher and Sexological Body Worker. While running a successful sex & intimacy private coaching practice, Kai teaches several Ecstatic Living seminars with Steve Still and Xanet Pailet.

A love, sex and relationship coach and somatic sex educator, Kai's mission is to support people of all cultures and backgrounds to be happy in their bodies, relationships and sexuality. "This work is my great love and my form of activism", she says. Kai's passion lies in helping people experience the satisfying sex and relationships they have always wanted and, in doing so, transform not only their own lives but our communities and the world at large.

Kai's teaching and coaching approach is holistic, interactive and experiential, and based on various influences from meditation, Taoism, Hakomi therapy, breathwork, and somatic healing modalities. Kai is co-founder of Embodiment Arts Collective, a San Francisco-based multi-disciplinary healing arts collective, a member of the American College of Sexologists, and a senior faculty member of the Ecstatic Living Institute. For more information about Kai's private coaching practice, visit lovebodysoul.com

“Kai and Xanet worked well together and I appreciated their honesty, approachability, wisdom and presence. It was powerful to have the time, space and exercises to connect with my partner in new ways. I learned tools to help us stay connected and tapped into my own passion and desires. Thank you for your wonderful workshop!”
—Amber (Santa Cruz, CA)
“Kai and Xanet are skilled and knowledgeable as they are easy-going and compassionate. It was a day well-spent with my wife and other couples. Now it’s time to go home and have some real sex!”
—Paul Guido (Oakland, CA)
“Kai and Xanet are a great team. They’re both very loving and their workshops are wonderfully delivered.”
—J. King
“What a breath of fresh air and loveliness! Kai and Xanet are compassionate, intuitive and lovely to be around. Their workshop was excellent and I learned so much. It was both practical, spiritual and everything in between. Thank you!”
—44 year-old female, Marriage and Family Therapist
“Kai and Xanet have distilled a dozen techniques from cognitive psychology and tantra into a useful set of practices that all couples can benefit from.”
—Dr. George Baldwin, Professor of Social Psychology
“Kai and Xanet are masters at helping people get to the root of intimacy and their workshop was wonderful! They really helped us build a more solid foundation and helped us create the building blocks for our future. Thank you so much!”
—L. Fontella (Hayward, CA)