Xanet Pailet
Certified Tantra Educator

Based in the San Francisco Bay Area, Xanet Pailet is a certified Tantra Educator, Sexological Body Worker and Somatica® trained sex coach who has worked in the therapeutic field for over 25 years. While running a successful sex & intimacy coaching practice for individuals and couples, Xanet also teaches several Ecstatic Living seminars—oftentimes with Thomas Stout or Kai Wu.

Xanet's teaching approach is holistic, interactive and experiential, and based on her extensive studies under Steve & Lokita Carter, her completion of the SkyDancing Tantra Coach & Teacher Training, as well as her broad experience in sex & intimacy coaching for individuals and couples.

For more information about Xanet's private coaching practice, visit powerofpleasure.com

“Kai and Xanet worked well together and I appreciated their honesty, approachability, wisdom and presence. It was powerful to have the time, space and exercises to connect with my partner in new ways. I learned tools to help us stay connected and tapped into my own passion and desires. Thank you for your wonderful workshop!”
—Amber (Santa Cruz, CA)
“Kai and Xanet are skilled and knowledgeable as they are easy-going and compassionate. It was a day well-spent with my wife and other couples. Now it’s time to go home and have some real sex!”
—Paul Guido (Oakland, CA)
“Kai and Xanet are a great team. They’re both very loving and their workshops are wonderfully delivered.”
—J. King