Xanet Pailet
Certified Tantra Educator

Bestselling author of Living An Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself & Awaken Your Pleasure, Xanet Pailet is a Tantra Educator, Sexological Body Worker and Somatica® trained sex coach who has worked in the therapeutic field for over 25 years. Xanet runs a successful sex & intimacy coaching practice for individuals and couples in the San Francisco Bay Area and teaches several of our Ecstatic Living seminars.

Xanet's teaching approach is holistic, interactive and experiential, and based on her extensive studies under Steve & Lokita Carter, her completion of the SkyDancing Tantra Coach & Teacher Training, as well as her broad experience in sex & intimacy coaching for individuals and couples makes Xanet an exceptional and very popular teacher.

For more information about Xanet's private coaching practice and her book, visit powerofpleasure.com

"this experience was transformational for my spouse and I. It opened us up to a deeper, more trusting, more vulnerable connection. [Xanet] was incredibly knowledgeable, loving, professional, and supportive in eliciting the best experience for each individual."
—Ecstatic Participants (San Francisco, CA)
"Xanet [and her assistant teacher] did a wonderful job facilitating this event! ...Knowledgeable, open, authentic, and really do live the Tantric path. I'd highly recommend this [Level 1] seminar if you're either new to Tantra or simply looking for something fun to do on the weekend!"
—Rob G (Santa Cruz, CA)
"I will definitely follow Xanet into future workshops! I really resonate with her, and with her personal honesty. The safe space she created allowed me to do a lot of powerful work and stay in my body."
—Kathy D (Santa Rosa, CA)
"Wonderful! The weekend overall was amazing! The exercises helped me stay connected with my partner and to learn more about myself. The teachers [Xanet and her assistant teacher] were wonderful, very professional, and sweet."
—Ecstatic Participant (San Francisco, CA)
"This was my first Ecstatic Living course and I would recommend it to everyone, both couples and singles alike! I loved how Xanet [and her assistant teacher] created a safe environment for such a personal and sensitive subject."
—Ecstatic Participant (San Francisco, CA)
"I feel this seminar [taught by Xanet] was both profound for relationship and personal growth. We learned tools to deepen our connection and intimacy as well as to connect with one's self."
—Ecstatic Participant (San Francisco, CA)
“I was skeptical coming into what the experience would be like. But once I did the first meditation which I had never done before, it opened my mind and I just embraced the experience and let go of my expectations and it was amazing! Xanet was the best!”
—Ecstatic Participant (San Francisco, CA)
"[Xanet's] workshop exceeded my expectations. As a therapist I tend to be critical of these types of events. The workshop is experientially focused with teachings interspersed. You won’t get bored. My fiancé and I have implemented the skills learned daily which has enhanced the intimacy of our relationship. It’s a great opportunity to lean into the proverbial edges with your partner and learn additional skills towards more positive outcomes. Bring your partner for a day of growth and play! You won’t be disappointed!"
—Danielle L (Oakland, CA)